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Ten Traps of Cathedral Ministers
Liturgy Day | February 7, 2015
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suspect that we have all read reports of the talk Pope Francis gave to members
of the Roman Curia just before Christmas. Some of us may even have read
the whole speech. I know I did. And it wasn’t light reading!
One tongue-in-cheek journalist referred to it the “coal in the Christmas
stocking speech.”
I’ve thought about that speech, reflected on it, and prayed about it.
Pope Francis must have prayed about it, too, because he knew that he was, in a
sense, taking his life in his hands when he departed from the usual papal
diplomatic niceties that are expected on such occasions and took off his gloves,
so to speak. And take them off, he did. Now, Pope Francis is a
bright man. He knows the score, and he knows very well that playing the prophet
can be a risky and even dangerous business. But play the prophet he did
that day. And the prophet that came to mind for me was Daniel in the
lions’ den!
In thinking about what I would say to you today, I couldn’t get Pope Francis out
of my mind, and the more I thought about it and prayed about it, the more I
thought it might be good to take a page from his book – even at the risk of
ruffling a few feathers. Am I getting your attention now?!
Now, a little disclaimer. You are not the Roman Curia. Be grateful
that you are not the Roman Curia! You are nothing like the Curia. So
you need to hear everything I say in light of that fact. OK? Please
keep that in mind!
Pope Francis chose to give his message on the eve of Christmas; I’m giving mine
(which borrows heavily from his) on the eve of Valentine’s Day. Pope
Francis’ message didn’t seem a lot like a Christmas present, and this probably
won’t seem a lot like a Valentine, but I give it to you with love and, let me
assure you at the start that I am talking as much to myself this morning as I am
to you….
In his talk, Pope Francis listed what he called “the fifteen diseases of the
Roman Curia.” I’ve done some editing of his points and have gotten mine
down to ten. But they are all from him. However, instead of calling
them “diseases,” I’ve decided to call my ten points “traps”--ten traps of
Cathedral ministers (and, again, I want to assure you that I am including the
Cathedral pastor!).
TEN TRAPS OF CATHEDRAL MINISTERS
- The trap of thinking yourself to be quite important -- even essential.
The ministers who fall into this trap are into a bit of a power trip. They
tend to think of themselves as somehow irreplaceable. For them (for us, for
me!) Pope Francis, with typical good humor, suggested a visit to a cemetery
to read the tombstones of those who “maybe thought they were immortal,
essential, or indispensable but who turned out not to be so at all.” We
are all important in our own way, of course, but none of us is immortal or
indispensable. And no one of us is more important than any other.
- The trap of excessive activity. These are the “Martha’s” of the gospel
story. These ministers tend to lose themselves in their work and to
neglect what Jesus called the better part, which is sitting at his feet.
Remember how Jesus called his disciples to “come apart and rest awhile”? He
knew that neglecting necessary rest brings anxiety and stress. So, yes, do
your ministry by all means, and do it faithfully and energetically, but take
time to rest, to reflect, and to pray about what you are doing, and take
time to pray for the people you are privileged to serve. All action
without prayer reflection can become empty and hollow.
- The trap of mental and spiritual ‘petrification.’ These are the
ministers who, instead of being true servants of God, eager to “weep with
those who weep and rejoice with those who rejoice,” become, instead, removed
and distant. They get lost behind their computer screens, caught in
the trap of all their organizing and administrative responsibilities, and
take little or no time to connect with people – with their fellow ministers
as well as with the people they serve.
- The trap of over-planning. Pope Francis says that over-planning can turn
a minister into an accountant. Planning is good and necessary, of
course, but we must never enclose or stifle the Holy Spirit. It is a
very human thing – but a trap – to fall back on fixed and unchanged
positions (“We’ve always done it this way!”) than to be open to the
stirrings of the Spirit.
- The trap of going it alone. Teamwork, not ‘lone ranger’ work, is
the ideal in ministry. It is important to build community within each
ministry as well as among the various ministries. We are all in this
together and no ministry is more important than any other. I’ll repeat
that: no ministry is more important than any other. And to that I
would add that no Mass is more important than any other, and no ministerial
station (center west, e.g.!), or ministerial role (bread vs cup) is more
important than the other.
- The trap of Spiritual Alzheimer’s. Pope Francis says that this happens
to those who have somehow lost the memory of their encounter with the Lord
and who live more in a state of dependence on their own views than of His.
They end up being ruled not by their faith in the Lord but by their own
whims and obsessions. We might ask ourselves the question: Is our
encounter with the Lord the driving force behind our ministry or is it just
our desire – even our generous desire – to do something useful or helpful?
- The trap of rivalry and vainglory. Here, the outward appearances of
things (the vestments we wear, perhaps, or the crosses around our necks, or
the badges on our suits), or even the very honor involved in doing a public
ministry becomes more important than the people being served.
- The trap of gossip and chatter. Pope Francis really comes down hard on
this one. This particular trap makes ministers into “sowers of
discord” (which, he says, is Satan’s work). It can turn ministers into (and
here I quote), “cold-blooded murderers of the reputation of their colleagues
by assailing their reputation, spreading gossip and rumors, and the like.”
Pope Francis goes on to say that this is the disease of cowards who don’t
have the courage to speak face-to-face to a person and, instead, resort to
talking behind a person’s back. He concludes by saying that “Gossip is
a form of terrorism!”
- The trap of closed circles. These are the people for whom belonging to
an inner circle of people they easily relate to or feel comfortable with
becomes more important than belonging to the body, and even to Christ
himself. There should be no closed circles in ministry. It’s all about
the Body.
- The trap of the funeral face. This is the trap people fall into who
think that, in order to be appropriately reverent, they need to show a
strict and somber face. They can even treat others with a certain harshness,
and rigidity. In another of his talks, Pope Francis spoke of ministers
going around “with hands glued together, looking like statues”! The
Pope kindly suggests that people who do this are often fearful and insecure,
whereas the true minister should strive to be friendly, approachable,
polite, serene, enthusiastic, and joyful. Again, his words: “How
beneficial a healthy dose of humor can be!”
There you have it!
Now, the last thing I would want you to take away from this is that you are not
appreciated and loved. You are! You are at the very heart of what
makes this place – this parish, this Cathedral -- what it is. In so many
ways, you are the face of St. James Cathedral and you are its heartbeat.
And in your various ministries you have the high calling of helping people to
pray. Of making their experience of prayer in this place a holy and
beautiful and memorable and even a life-changing thing.
But we can all profit from an examination of conscience, can’t we! I can.
You can. We all need time to stop and reflect, to examine our motives and
to purify our motives. To search our souls and to lay bare our hearts.
I do. You do. And with that, I will wish you not only a Happy
Valentine’s Day this coming week, but a happy and holy and spiritually
transforming Lent. And I’ll close with the simple words Pope Francis spoke
as he ended his visit to the Philippines a little over a week ago. He told
the throngs, “In these days, throughout my visit, I have listened to you sing
the song, ‘We are all God’s children.’ All of us are God’s children, members of
God’s family…!”
My friends, let us remember that. If we do, can you imagine how wonderful
things would be? How wonderful things will be?!
Father Michael G. Ryan
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